Tuesday, July 13, 2010

5 Simple Tips to Help You Fall Out of Crazy Love

Do you have any tips for falling out of crazy love?

I'm going to assume from your question that you are talking about a relationship which ended badly for you. The main theme for "falling out of crazy love" under such circumstances is the theme of healing.

You might want to consider the following:

1. Be aware that you have some grieving to do. Even if the relationship ended in anger, it is still a loss.
2. Part of the grieving process involves getting some clarity in two areas: a. an honest assessment of your role in the problems; b. acknowledging that which you did well in the relationship.
3. Be compassionate with yourself. Say some affirmations. Do an act of kindness for yourself. Nurture yourself a little.
4. Do some journaling. Write angry letters that you don't mail
5. Don't be in a big hurry to get into another relationship. Take some time to heal.

There are times when you still love a person but you are not "in crazy love" with them. Perhaps you have been drained by the relationship and are "out of love" for just that reason.

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